Depression March 2004March 2004
DEPRESSION
We are coming out of the dark, cold days of winter when just about everyone has a harder time getting up in the morning and getting out into the world. But for some, the “blues” don’t lift, or even get harder because it seems like everyone else is perking up.
HarvardMedicalSchool research indicates that nearly one third of people over age 65 experience some form of depression (Newsweek January 19, 2004 p. 66). This may be due to the losses of health, friends, family and social status associated with old age. It may be a side effect of medications taken for other health problems. Or it may be a “vascular depression” where reduced blood flow damages nerve pathways and affects mood and motivation.
Indicators of depression include:
All too often, these factors are considered “normal” in older adults, and dismissed by family and medical practitioners. Sometimes they are attributed to other conditions or events, or we have become too accustomed to “toughing it out” and not asking for help.
The first step to overcoming depression is to acknowledge it. This helps turn it into a challenge to overcome. You can then apply the problem-solving skills that have worked for you in the past. Diane Keaton is quoted as saying “But happiness? I don’t know. Isn’t life really a series of problem-solving events? It’s how much you’re engaged by the fun of solving your problems, and continuing to be curious. That’s as much as you can expect.” (Newsweek 12.08.03). Attitude can be the difference between seeing an event as a solvable challenge or an overwhelming obstacle.
Michael C. Miller, MD, in the January Newsweek article, recommends staying busy. Keep as physically and mentally active as your health allows. His second recommendation is to stay connected. Find ways to talk about the meaning of your life. Find new relationships to replace those lost through retirement. If friends and family are not enough, make new connections. Volunteering can give a new sense of purpose, build self-esteem and build new friendships. PSRC offers many opportunities to exercise the mind and body and to make new social connections.
If these things don’t work for you, seek the help of a physician or therapist to explore the benefits of medication or cognitive-behavioral therapy. You do not have to accept depression as a normal part of aging.
Susan W. Hoskins LCSW
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